Meet the Dragon Dads: The Mormon Fathers Fighting for Their LGBTQ+ Kids

Author: Christopher Wiggins

Amidst a confounding mix of religious beliefs and newfound realities, Jake Abhau found himself at a crossroads when his 13-year-old son, Jon, confided in him about being gay.

The ripple of advocacy didn’t end in the virtual sphere for Jake Abhau. He and other Dragon Dads members took to the streets, participating in Pride parades, amplifying their acceptance and support for their LGBTQ+ children. He light-heartedly recounted Jon’s jest that the Dragon Dads were “gayer than he is,” a humorous testament to the protective camaraderie the dads have cultivated against discrimination.

Parallelly, Donald Christensen found his haven in Dragon Dads when his daughter, Mia, came out at 17. Like many fathers in the group, he felt a surge to protect his family from perceived threats stemming from societal and religious biases.

Reflecting on his emotions, Christensen told Today, “Even though nothing has actually changed, you suddenly feel like your family is under attack.”

As Jon Abhau embarks on his adult journey, his father’s commitment to Dragon Dads remains unswayed, extending a supportive hand to others newly acquainted with their children’s LGBTQ+ identities. The transformative journey of Dragon Dads not only unveils a narrative of evolving attitudes within conservative religious communities but also epitomizes the boundless realms of parental love transcending rigid traditional mores.

Jake Abhau said, “We see people’s lives change, and you are a small part of it,” Jake Abhau said. “You get to take away the joy of seeing people’s lives changed and seeing people find a connection and acceptance. It is constantly motivating.”